Act 2:
Lao Tzu once said:
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage"
"Its too late and too cold indeed but nothing a shot of whiskey can't handle after work" said the dock worker,while placing the new crate that arrived in the pile of crates that is getting ready to be shipped.
"Man,its been 4 days since you have seen your wife,don't stay up this late tonight and go home" replied his friend,"its cold but nothing the warmth of your loved one can't heat up".
The Dock worker cleaned the dirt in his hands with his trousers and smiled at his friend " Gina is spending too much time seeing her best friends right now so I don't think she will mind"
We miss and skip those moments sometimes,those moments that carried us to be in love,those moments that made us wake up and embrace the reality that love is the only true freedom.Sadly love is not everlasting,it fades and those chills and butterflies in the stomach fades and all the joy it brings dies into bitterness.Screams of happiness and faces filled with stupid smiles leaves for shots of whiskey and faces that frowns and sobs.Relationships turns into routines leaving for a life filled with one,and during this time,a new fling turns in to a new excitement a door out of your miserable routine .but those flings good or bad cannot be fully lived,because you still have your heart beating for your loved one.So the flings don't take us anywhere but a frown this time filled with compunction.And we still welcome them.
Why?
For a guy,its always simpler,wandering eyes meets a girl,to be banged for the fun of it.A score that is noted in the scoreboard.
But for a girl,it is not that,Keep in mind that girls always have some guy best friends standing in shadows,some guys that tells them nice things and be there for them whenever they are down,comforting them.
You sometimes catch an sms or mail,the good old guy best friend explaining his feelings in a thuggish romanticism.The guy is probably drunk and he is trying for a home to be settled at cause he is too alone and shit.And when you try to explain to your girlfriend that this friend of hers don't seem right you always end up in a discussion that ends badly.
And they always come with a package,a similar back story.;A probable short lived flirtation followed by 5 years and plus friendship where they joked about being back together again from time to time.But when you bring this subject up you are the bad guy,cause they had all the time in the world to be that but they didn't so you should be great full?
So the flirtation works,so it does for the guy too.A relationship filled with boredom can always be a new window for a relationship with a good friend,that has flirtations in it.
I've been in all the spots of this love triangle,never had a best girlfriend who had alternative motives to be friends with me,I don't think best girlfriends become best girlfriends because of their alternative motives anyway they are different from us guys.
But we on the other hand want a girl sometimes but end up in the best friends department.Or start sharing our dis functional relationships with her,to get pointers and when it all ends for us,find ourselves,wanting to be with our best girlfriends.
Knowing that includes a harsh burden when it comes to you being the boyfriend and that other guy being in your shoes being the best friend.Is that Karma?
In the end I came up with a conclusion,This whole situation,this whole mind fucking,anger making,stomach curling,disgusting situation is not on the boyfriend or the best friend,it is all on the flirtatious girlfriend who says yes to you and keeps the alternative on the side.
Cause with or without knowing she continues on flirting with the best friend but in a way when confronted about it she has all the proofs that she never did such a thing.While saying to the boyfriend that he is the only guy for her,the guy she fell in love with and the guy who she lets inside of her privacy.
The only Innocent person here is the boyfriend who know what is going on but keeps harmed in anyway.
So what Braindamage says is stop lying to yourselves and admit what you are doing for once.
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